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The Day She Called

Rachel called me on Saturday, May 13. With her living in LA and me living in St. Louis, our relationship was 90% texting. We texted every day, but it was rare for her to call.

“Mom, I don’t feel good.”

She’d worked an outdoor event the day before, so I told her to take a couple Tylenol and lie on a heating pad—the advice any mother would give. When she called again the next day, Mother’s Day, she sounded fine but tired, and she didn’t say anything was wrong.

But then she called me again the next day, Monday the 15th. She was in the ER at Cedars-Sinai because an urgent care nurse told her to go there instead. I threw a few things in a bag and flew out that night.

A Message From Terry

A Gratitude Moment

I hope no one minds a moment of gratitude.
When I was diagnosed with cancer, I truly didn’t think I would live very long. There were plenty of reasons to believe I might not.
Around the same time I was diagnosed, my oldest daughter learned she was pregnant. Living long enough to see that baby born felt almost impossible. Yet it happened. That grandchild arrived around the same time I rang the bell at the end of treatment.
After that, we spent years waiting for the other shoe to drop. But it never did.
Today, I’m sitting here nap-trapped, holding grandchild number eighteen—the newest and youngest member of our family.
As I hold this precious baby, I can’t help but notice a small dark patch of skin above the neckline of my shirt. It’s a reminder of the radiation burns from treatment. Most of that damaged skin was removed during reconstruction about ten years later, but that little patch remains.
I look at it often.
Not with sadness, but with gratitude.
Because when I was first diagnosed, I could never have imagined this life—eighteen grandchildren, ordinary days, and the privilege of holding a sleeping baby in my arms.
I know many of you are walking through difficult days right now. But please, hold on to hope.
Sending love to all of you.
Hope always,
Terry Lynn Arnold
Terry Arnold

Terry Arnold

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